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AMBIVERT I am :)

Introvert or Extrovert? Introvert or Extrovert? Introvert, Extrovert………………………………….

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My mind was never gonna stop until it found the apt answer. The article of being an introvert by Chris had literally made my heart pounce hard with this question. It was always on min. Everywhere & all the time.

I had to find an answer & how did I exactly start? Read all posts on this issue, googled, wiki’ed, TED, et etc . What & what not did I try? Ended it up by reading Cee’s article today. This research study of mine lead me into a huge trouble of answering another heapful of questions that erupted.

I had heard research work helps you find answers. Mine was a totally reverse case. It led me to the curiosity of answering the rest that were busy being popping one after the other in mind. Well, I gave a try to find answers even for them. Eventhough, I thought it’d be tiring,  at the end I was relieved & joy was all over my face.

Phew! Answer, I got it. 🙂

I’M AN AMBIVERT”

I always assumed I was an introvert but also had a slight doubt as to why I’m loud with my friends, why would I love talking to few particular people & why happiness is all to me??? Easiest way, I just presumed I was an introvert, so I couldn’t  be the same socializing, loving type person with all.

That truly isn’t the case. I’m an ambivert who loves being around people gaining social attention and even prefers a lone time to think upon at times. I am of this kind.

Reading the articles and comments upon various blogs, I found I wasn’t fully one of them. There were few things that I didn’t agree upon & have same thoughts as they had. That was my realization moment. if I was an introvert, I’d be just as them all.

“I’m something else. ” That’s when I began my research hunt.

Infinite other questions too answered. 🙂

So, it’s ” I’m an AMBIVERT”.  Are there any more in here ???

Daily Prompt: The best of BFF’s Gyan

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When it comes to BFF’s, luck has bestowed me in a handful of them whom I love unconditionally. The rapo we share is amazing & one worth cherishing even after death.
Yet, there’s always a best even among the better lot. So id the case with mine. One girl whose been my all time favorite BFF is just one big chunk of my roller coaster life. We’ve been together through thick & thin & now we share a bond that’s beyond limits of understanding.
Moments lived together, endless talks, crazy stuff we giggled doing it all brought us very close. She always said one thing to me that rings in my mind every now & then. 
                                                    “Trust your heart for you, Play the mind for others”
She had observed how gullible a person I was & how easily sways my thoughts accordingly to theirs rather than sticking to my own. She taught me how to stick by my conscience & what my heart thought & felt. That gyan kept me away from bad people who mislead others, who bitch around, who ill treat and much more.
 
That piece of advice of hers definitely has made me a better person now. I proudly take the honor to announce I’m  no more gullible. Yes, I do listen to all of what they say but I play my mind to change their thoughts if they’re on the wrong side of the aisle.
BFF’s advice Take it seriously and adapt. They know you better than you do. I just did.  it’s now your turn if you haven’t begun yet.
 

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